Leadership Connector, Communication

Leadership Connector, Communication:

Communication is the key in all relationships, professional, personal, parenthood, and even communicating in first time encounters. The quote by Marilyn Drucker says it all. “The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.” This is the mystery of communication. Leaders or administrators tend to do this very well. They will say one thing with a smile, but facial expressions and body language say something else. A good leader in my opinion, communicates with actions first then words spoken will either line up with the action or not.  This is where the words "true colors" comes from. It is true that actions speak louder than words, so as an administrator I hope to lead with my actions first then allow my words to confirm my beliefs, values and expectations. A good leader also possesses humor and can frame or adjust a bad situation into a positive one. Humor or wit and framing, in my opinion, is the art of communicating. It takes a lot of experience and personal character to welcome laughter and calmness with staff members without compromising sincerity. Regarding writing, most administrators communicate well with their writing, but sometimes the tone of the message is misunderstood. This is really a thin line to walk between emails and face to face, this is why I prefer either on the phone or face to face. Lastly, a consensus is very important in order to have buy in within the staff.  I remember our previous principal asked us to come up with ideas about our school motto. All ideas were shared and then we all voted on the best 10, then 5, then 3. Finally our motto was chosen by consensus. Therefore, a good leader listens to their staff and welcomes their ideas.  I really liked this chapter.
Ronda Turney